Nov 04, 2026
Parshat Chayey Sarah 5787
1. Chesed and Emet: The Marriage That Would Bring Truth into the World
Why does Eliezer ask Rivka's family whether they will perform chesed ve'emet, kindness and truth, for Avraham? And why did Avraham insist that Yitzchak not marry a Canaanite woman? The Maor VaShemesh explains that Avraham understood that his descendants would embody three essential divine attributes: Avraham himself represented chesed, Yitzchak represented gevurah, and Yaakov would embody emet, truth. Yitzchak therefore needed a wife through whom the attribute of truth could emerge in the next generation. The Canaanites, whom the Gemara describes as rejecting truth, could not provide that foundation. Eliezer's question was thus more than a request for kindness toward his master. He was asking whether Rivka embraced the quality of truth that would allow Avraham's spiritual legacy to continue through Yaakov and ultimately draw divine kindness into the world.2. The Greatness of Eliezer: When Conversation Surpasses Torah
The Midrash famously teaches that the conversations of the servants of the Patriarchs are more precious than the Torah teachings of their descendants. Why should the Torah devote so much space to Eliezer's repeated account of his mission, while important laws are derived from only a few words? The Maor VaShemesh offers an unusual explanation by comparing Eliezer with Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai and Rabbi Elazar bar Rabbi Yosi. These great sages developed intricate Torah interpretations concerning the ritual impurity of a creeping creature's blood, yet when they traveled on a mission to overturn Roman decrees, their miraculous assistance came through Ben Temalyon rather than an angel. Eliezer, by contrast, introduced no novel Torah interpretation, merely repeating the events of his journey, yet merited the assistance of two angels. The Midrash's comparison thus highlights Eliezer's extraordinary spiritual merit, demonstrated not by the originality of his teachings but by the heavenly assistance accompanying his mission.3. Yitzchak's Transformation: From Judgment to Mercy
Why does the Torah describe Yitzchak as coming from Be'er Lachai Roi, and what is the significance of his going into the field to pray toward evening? The Maor VaShemesh explains that before the Akeidah, Yitzchak embodied gevurah, awakening humanity to the reality of divine judgment and inspiring fear of Hashem. At the Akeidah, however, Avraham's chesed tempered Yitzchak's severity, transforming his spiritual mission. Rather than continuing to awaken judgment, Yitzchak now sought to soften it at its source and draw divine mercy and blessing into the world. The Torah's unusual language concerning his arrival from Be'er Lachai Roi alludes to the subsiding of his former severity. His institution of Minchah provides the clearest expression of this transformation: precisely when divine judgment intensifies toward evening, Yitzchak turns to prayer to sweeten that judgment and bring compassion into the world.4. Rivka's Encounter with Yitzchak: Seeing Ourselves Anew
Why does Rivka fall from her camel when she first sees Yitzchak, and what does Rashi mean when he describes Yitzchak as hadur, majestic, and Rivka as tav'ha, astonished? The Maor VaShemesh explains that people devoted to Torah and serving Hashem may come to regard their spiritual accomplishments as greater than they truly are. Encountering a genuine tzaddik, however, reveals how much further they have to grow and inspires them to examine and improve their actions. The word gamal, camel, alludes to gemul, one's good deeds and accomplishments; Rivka's fall symbolizes her reassessment of the spiritual heights she believed she had reached. The Maor VaShemesh further interprets hadur through hadrei bi, the language of reconsideration and teshuvah: Rivka recognizes in Yitzchak the spiritual quality of returning to Hashem, and her astonishment leads her to reconsider her own conduct. Even her veil carries deeper significance, symbolizing the spiritual protection achieved through teshuvah and the rectification of all five levels of the soul through the fifty gates of binah.Use this source sheet for further exploration of Parshat Chayey Sarah, complete with footnoted sources and a concise, footnoted bio of R. Kalonymus Kalman Epstein (Ma’or Va-Shemesh) to enjoy this teaching at your own pace, perfect for self-learners. Prepared by Rabbi Shalom (Saul) Orbach The Ma’or Va-Shemesh is a classic Hasidic commentary on the weekly portions and festivals by R. Kalonymus Kalman Epstein of Kraków (1751-1823). A foremost later disciple, and for years the Shamash, of R. Elimelech of Lizhensk, he emerged after his rebbe’s passing as a leading figure in the fourth generation of Chassidut and of Polish Hasidism. His Torah blends close reading of the Psukim with mystical depth, emphasizing Dvekut, heartfelt prayer, joy, and sanctifying the everyday, with a hallmark leadership ethic: the tzaddik sweetens judgment into mercy and draws people close.